“Until he wants me…” =(
I had a guy do this…while he may be getting it elsewhere…I have no idea…it’s certainly a possibility he is using sex as a form of control over you…guess what? Unfortunately it’s working…see my first line…
Something is amiss here…that’s not a healthy relationship…he’s not concerned about your needs…and reasonable, healthy ones at that…time to have a deep deep talk…hugs.