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OMG…it sounds just like my marriage. Exactly like it. He even tested for testesterone, but it was all normal. I struggled with it for years, tried all tricks in the book, lingerie, cute surprises,...
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Thanks Sherri. Thing is, I know he does think about sex. He has model naked women as his phone screen saver. And his Internet search often brings up ‘naked lesbians’ and stuff. But I don’t know...
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Thanks for the reply Laura. Get what you’re saying, but I’m not sure that can be the case. He’s so good in all other aspects of the relationship. Like he’s so supportive and encouraging, and we get on...
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May be he has low testosterone levels. Ask him to see the doctor. If he refuses, time to move on. I was in a marriage like this where sex was only once a year. It really takes a toll on your self...
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“Until he wants me…” =( I had a guy do this…while he may be getting it elsewhere…I have no idea…it’s certainly a possibility he is using sex as a form of control over you…guess what? Unfortunately...
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We’ve never been the sort of couple to ‘f**k like rabbits’, especially as he was my first and I was very shy and under confident sexually. We began having sex...
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DOOD, You’re living in a fantasy world, not the real world. He’s 28…what do you think is going to happen when he’s 38 and 48 and 58 and 68 and 78? Do you think his sex drive is actually going to get...
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Seans girl are you actually serious. You’re telling me there’s no way he’s attracted to me despite the fact all you’ve done is heard my side of the story, aka probably a biased account. Fair enough...
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You say: “And he regularly really turns me on without even doing anything lol.” While that may be true for you, he obviously doesn’t feel the same about you. What he’s told you through not having sex...
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There’s not no sexual chemistry. When it happens right we both really enjoy it. And he regularly really turns me on without even doing anything lol. He’s 28 not 22. He’s had a lot more sexual...
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It sounds to me like you are more friends than lovers. You may love each other a lot, but it doesn’t sound like that sexual chemistry is there. You can’t make it happen unfortunately. If he ddoesn’t...
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Wow, I find this unusual as well. Men are generally interested in sex, it’s in their nature. Plus for a man who’s young, the sex drive must be an all time high. Even older men still want to sustain...
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He is probably sleeping with someone else. I can not think of a 22 or 24 year old man who is not interested in sex, or wanting sex all the time, if you choose to be naive about this because you “can’t...
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Interestingly he just responded to a messaged I’d left him this morning about me sending him a photo. We then started a little sexting. Which literally hasn’t happened in forever. Then after while (of...
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There’s a lot of compromise work in every relationship dear. Especially long term ones
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Thanks again Sophie, appreciate the advice :)
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Exactly, it would just be how to change and good point that you know the answer, which is your ways to get pleasure. He is often tired, hence he might have a hard time to pleasure you so any approach...
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Thanks Sophie. I’m glad someone else thinks sex isn’t the be all and end all. I agree it’s important, but there’s much more to a relationship. I’d be happy to change if it were to make things better...
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Danielle, I actually believe that sex is not everything in relationship (for me myself it is like 20:80). If he would not change himself for the sake of solving this sex issue, you might want to...
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Well I’m happy for you. I’m not gonna dump my perfectly good boyfriend because he’s tired. Not all guys are the same
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