Honestly, I would like it if he just would tell me through text lol. Since its not like we were dating, I dont think he even owes me an explanation, so I think its nice that he is offering me one. But I guess I just think it would be less awkward for me if he just would text it to me because then I would have time to let whatever he ends up saying sink it and then I would have time to think of a cool and collective response. I know whatever he ends up telling me is going to be something that I obviously don’t want to hear so when he says it to my face, I feel like I’m just gonna have to really be on my toes about processing it quickly and coming up with a chill response quickly; this way it wont look like I was all that disappointed ya know? The last thing I want to look like is a girl that got too attached to quickly and now I’m upset because he doesnt want to be my fwb anymore. Although I’ll admit I did have a crush on him, I always came off non-chalant and not clingy so I would like to keep that image.
But yeah I agree. I am a relationship type of girl. But I did just get out of a 3 year relationship and I want to play the field to see what else is all out there. But also I did like that guy and we already had sex in the past, so I figured it would be a convenient way to get good sex with a nice and trustworthy guy while also having the opportunity to play the field. The only reason I even became fwb with this guy before was because I knew him from work for almost about 9 months before anything even happened and I knew that he was a trustworthy and kind guy. I definitely don’t think I would ever have casual sex with someone that I wasn’t REALLY good friends with for a long time like in this situation. Then I would definitely feel like I was being used.
