Thanks for the reply Laura.
Get what you’re saying, but I’m not sure that can be the case. He’s so good in all other aspects of the relationship. Like he’s so supportive and encouraging, and we get on like best friends. He’s not overly soppy but he has his moments. He’s always there if somethings wrong. It’s just the sex that’s the issue. But he’s said he doesn’t think it’s much of an issue – when he admitted he lost his sex drive, he said not to worry and that he’d always love me and be with me even if we didn’t have sex. He was trying to be reassuring, although I’d just love him to sometimes just want sex from me more!!
If I offer a BJ, he sometimes says no because he’s too tired or whatever to return the favour, and ‘let’s do it when I can return the favour’. I say I don’t mind (like any sexual activity is better than nothing!), but then the situation is always wrong or whatever and next time often doesn’t happen :/
